Friday, October 1, 2010
YOUR DESTINY
How much do you think your destiny depends on what type of people your parents/guardian are? Do you think how you were raised controls your future or is it more about you taking the wheel? (Due by Wednesday, Oct 6 no later than midnight) *Entries arriving after midnight or not meeting the 350-550 word count will not be graded*
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I believe your destiny depends on the person your parents are. Parents are suppose to guide and teach the child right from wrong. They want the child to do the right and not wrong. One reason is because that person is usually a child role model and example. If the parent want the best for the child, then the child going to usually grow up on high standards and goals in life. Another reason is the way parents act. If the parent act rude, cocky, disrespectful, etc chances are the child is going to grow up in that atomsphere and have the same attitude as the parent. If the child is doing wrong, mostly its a reflection on the parent. For example, if the child curse, people look at that child will think that the child got the cursing from the parents.
ReplyDeleteHowever, the destiny of a child can also be from the individuals they associate with. If they hang out with the wrong crowd, the child will have problems later on in life if they make the wrong choices they made as a child/ teen. If you don't follow your destiny, you might go on in life thinking about what to do with your life and who you are.
I think the way I'm raise to control my future because my parents especially my mother, are very strict about my education and future. They want me to use knowledge in my career when I'm older. My parents strive me to do my best in everything I do from the small things such as doing my homework, doing to school, arriving to school on time, etc. However, sometimes I feel like I can't take the wheel on my life when it comes to my future. However, I may not see it or know it now but, I am happy for my parents. I am happy because they want me to have the best life possible. I want to become a pshychologist and my parents doesn't want me to have a certain career, but they want me to have a good career. If my parents wasn't this strict and didn't care about me like they did, I will mostly be a teen that will not have high grades and wouldn't care too much about life or my future.
In conclusion, the way the parents raise the child have a major impact of their destiny and if the child can control their future or taking the wheel of their future.
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ReplyDeleteTyrell Young
ReplyDeleteI think parents plays a vital role in their child’s education and learning ability. A child with influential, caring, and austere parents will most likely have a greater chance of becoming successful in life than a child whose parents are less influential, caring, and austere. Relating to my life experience, my destiny is greatly impacted by my parents who promotes positive contribution to my success. They ensured that I does the right things and stay on the right path. If it so happens that I lost track of the right path, they stand behind me to make sure I recover and back into the right direction. My parents try to make my life a pleasant one by making sure I am comfortable, secure, and that my necessities are met. They informed me from a young age about the value of a good education and encouraged me to make the best of what is given. They taught me how to choose my companions and how I could eventually end up if I choose the bad ones. I listen to their words of wisdom and appreciate every bit of encouragements they offered because I know they hold the key to unlock my destiny.
I most certainly could not of been the person I am without the constant push of my parents. Despite hearing their continuous naggings, aggravating commands, and irritating flashbacks to their childhood, I eventually grow to get accept it and realize the fact that they were right. My mother is mostly the nagger. Whenever she tells me to get something done, I usually hesitate and that’s where her constant nagging come into play. My father on the other hand is more furious and he talks with sturdiness in his voice. When ever he command me to get something done I quickly rush to it. At times when I do something out of requirement or considered bad to my parents or whenever times I passed up an opportunity, my parents would tell me of how their childhoods were difficult from time to time and how fortunate and lucky we are in today’s society.
My parents carved the way for my future and inspires me to treat my children with the same caring, tenderness, and compassionate they devoted to me as a child.
Nigel Cyril
ReplyDeleteWell…I’m kind of swinging both ways, when your young you can tell your children anything and they would believe it, but certain things you tell your children can lead them to believe it for the rest of their lives, but that’s not the point. If you have parents that are religious doesn’t make you religious, or a dad that’s violent or drinker doesn’t mean that’s what you will become. You decide how you are by your actions and deeds. Many people probably had poor parents or parents never their, just search up a random historical person and you’ll probably find one. The only thing your parents can control is how you look, since you’re born with their genes. You also don’t have to get the same job your parent gets, if your parents were both probably doctors, you can be a lawyer or engineer, depends on what you want.
My parents aren’t really strict, especially my dad. My mom always wants me to become whatever I want, but a homeless dead beat. My dad is the same way, he cares about my education, even if he never asks me how’s school, ever, but my dad is the one that inspired me the most a bit by how much he pretty much cares. He gets easily mad in certain ways but he’s pretty awesome and never really says no to anything unless it’s completely stupid or unnecessary. My mom inspires me to make sure I have my priorities in check so when I grow up, she can brag about me. What I want in my life is something that worth keeping, I don’t want to be someone who does the same thing over again, I want to be a game designer. My mom doesn’t much approve, but she can’t veto this decision in my life. That one of my great big reasons why I say you can control your life. People can still impact on what you become in your life so it’s wise how you choose it.
Conclusion is, be what you want to be, not how your parents want you to be unless it’s very good.
I think your destiny does depend on what type of parents you have. I believe it does because if your parents want you to be successful in life, they will do anything to help you succeed. If your parents don’t care if you become successful then they wont encourage you to do good. Your parents are the only people in your life that can tell you what to do. And how to do it the right way, they are the only ones who will always be there for you. They are also the ones who will lead you through the right paths of life. I also think it does depend on what type of parents you have because what ever your parents did in the past, also depends on what you will do. If you follow your parents positive footsteps, you will succeed. If your parents weren’t able to accomplish their goals, they expect you to do better then what they did, and fulfill your dreams or destiny. Your parents are the ones who you should look up to and say that you would want to do better then they did and show everyone that it is possible to do better then your parents.
ReplyDeleteI think the way I was raised does control my future because my parents have raised me to do well in school so that I will have the opportunity to do whatever I want in the future. I have also been taught to work hard for what I want. My parents care a lot about my grades and what I want to be when I get older. They’re always telling me that education is the key to anything. And if I put my mind to one thing, go for it no matter how complicated things can get.
I think that my destiny or any child's destiny has to do with what type of parents you have. The parents job is to show you the good path in life and to help guide you through it. They are suppose to tell you about the good things in life and the bad things n life. If your parents are negative, rude and disrespectful all the time and show this negativity all the time, mostlikely the child will also be this way. If a child see their parents acting that way, they will also think its alright to act that way. The child will grow up to be like that and it will definitely effect their future. People will not want to associate with you because of that. However, if a parent have a positive attitude and support their child, their child will have a better chance of having a bright future. Parents need to keep their child on the right path and believe in them as much as they can. They need to so that their destiny have a chance of coming true.
ReplyDeleteI feel like the way you were raised controls your future and I also feel like its about you taking the wheel. If you group up in a negative environment then there's a chance of you growing up with a negative attitude. If you weren't treated right as a child then you will have a lot of anger inside of you and you will start to treat other people bad because of the way you were treated. That can damage your future. Also, I feel like its about you taking the wheel because you can always change and take charge. If you grew up a certain way that don't mean it has to follow you to your future. I feel that it can go both ways.
Lastly, I feel like all parents have a major impact on their child's life and without their help can effect their child's future.
The characteristics of individuals’ parents determine the magnitude of one’s success rate and happiness in the future.
ReplyDeleteIn this world, it is apart of conventional wisdom to know that children learn from their parents. In some countries, children learn particular trades. For example, if a young boy’s father is a lumberjack, the boy’s father has to teach his son his trade. In the future, his son will take on the same trade as he, and become a lumberjack as well. In America, a similar process goes on. Some wealthy business owners pass down their industry to their children. Their children must learn the ways and polices of their parent’s company to keep their family business to continue to run the way it usually does. These both are direct influences that a parent can have on their children’s future. These parents steered their children into the career path and determined their children’s destiny.
Another way parents can influence their children is indirectly. Some children are not in the best situation sake of their parent’s inability to provide or care for their children. For example, a child who has parents whom does not care about their welfare, is expected to have a bad future, however, the child’s parents can indirectly influence the child to do well. Another example is when a child is in a situation where their parents can not provide for them. The child is therefore, indirectly influenced to do well and attempt to prosper economically in the future.
How I am being raised will control the outcome of my future. My parents both directly and indirectly influences the way my life will turn out to be. My family is not economically successful. I live in the “projects” and have a strong aversion towards it. In the future, I hope to be successful and use the idea of the “projects” as a deterrent so I will never end up in an economic haphazard. I am determined to become more aware and educated about finances to never make the mistakes of my parents. My parents directly influence me as well by motivating me to go to college. They steer me on the path to education and to become better than what they are now. They basically motivate me to endeavor everything I do to ensure that I will become successful.
The attributes of individuals’ parents determines the greatness of one’s future. Parents can either influence their children directly or indirectly. When children are influenced directly, he/she is told by his/her parents what to do. On the other hand, parents also indirectly influence his/her children’s’ future whether their children disdainfully glowers at their parent’s shoddy achievements or be the opposite of there are parents.
I think parents can help you guide a child’s life but it’s up to the child if you want to take that advice. Destiny is something that you have control over but people can tell you how you can run it like, For example Parents would tell a child not to join a gang because it going to lead them down the wrong path but a friend can tell them otherwise to change their mind. Sometimes their are other people that will try to influence your choices you make in life like in the example before, when you are make choices you have to stop and think what ever your going to do is going to make my life easier or hard. You should try to make life easier for yourself even if others are not because there are going to be a bump in that long journey to where you want to go in life but you got to find the brighter side and keep on pushing until you achieve your destiny. Parents have the right to see their child go down the wrong path because they know that something dangerous can happen to that child and the children should take that advice and see what happens. When kids make bad decisions they should fix it quick because it can get worse then it is now and their would be nowhere to turn, they would feel like there on their own. My parents are the type of people to tell me to do the right thing and work hard to success in life and I try to add the advice to my everyday life and I things that I enjoy to do. My parents also make sure that my education is first and anything else is last and I have to put my best foot forward into something that I try hard to do. If kids don’t factor in their parents input into their lifestyle they would throw the most important thing for anyone and kids should not listen to people who influence their lives in a negative way, if someone is not motivating you in a positive way to steer your life in a positive direction then you should not be around them. Having a positive mind can also help someone or yourself have a healthy destiny and parents are also the key to a healthy destiny, which mean that how you were raised helps you to control your future but only if the child’s uses what he or she was taught.
ReplyDeletei do not believe that someone's parents will determine the type of person they will. I do not even believe that someones environment will effect the kind of person they will grow up to be.The reason why is because everyone is different and no one should allow another or their surroundings to determine how successful or unsuccessful they will become. For instance just because someone father may have been .abusive towards their mother does not mean that the son should grow up to become and abuser unless that is the path that they choose for themselves.It is nothing forced . If someone wants better for themselves they would achieve rather than letting others take the blame for their failure.
ReplyDeleteIts definitely about someone taking the wheel of their life. no one will do anything for someone else all their life. if someone wants something for themselves they will do everything in their power to get it.
So neither is it someones parents fault as to how they turn out or someones environment . It is only the person them self to blame for how they turn out.Whether its someone they wanted to be or not . Only they can change that not their parents.
I believe that everybody is in charge of their own destiny. I do believe that the way people were raised does play an important role in ones future. Parents, guardians, family member friends and the environment around us are huge influences in our lives but it is up to us to make the decision on how to respond to it. People have different outcomes in the future even though they were raised around similar conditions. Depending on how the parents are the child might want to be exactly the same or completely different. If they are raised a certain way the child might follow the traditional way they were raised and recycle that to their children or they might not follow the usual way and raise their children a different way. Even though there are different ways for a child to turn out depending on the circumstances the child was raised, they were influenced by their parents in some type of manner. No matter what situation parents or guardians play an important role in influencing their children. I believe that the environment around someone also impacts their future.
ReplyDeleteMy mother does not push me to my limit in anything and her mother did not push her either and she has turned out to be a successful woman in my eyes and I plan to be like her if not as well, better. My mother is more of a doer than a talker so instead of taking me down memory lane, she does what she needs to do now and if any obstacle get in her way she finds her way around it. I observe what she does and I learn from her. When I ask her to help me with a decision, she does not tell me what to do. She give me suggestions, and makes me come up with the final decision. In my situation the way my mother is does shape my personality and the person I will be but I have my own part to play and that is observing her. If I did not do that, I do not think I would be as independent, hardworking, and determined as I am now. If I would not study my mother, I would probably blame her for the unhappiness that I would have. She treats me like I am her equal but in some cases when she demands me to do something she needs it done as soon as possible. As a child I should be grateful to have a mother that treats me as her equal but at times I wish she would be my parent. I have no father in my life but his absence influences me to care for others and have an open-heart. There are so many outcomes of my conditions and influences but I decided which direction and pathway I would take. Whether or not your parents are in or out of your life or if they encourage you or not, they are great influences in a child’s life. The child just determines how to respond to the influence.
Does your destiny get defined by what type of parent you have? I definitely think so. If you come from a broken family of course that is going to negatively affect you. The support that you would need in order to cohabitate with other people would not be there. You would always be worried about having to go home to the drama, which is awaiting you. I know that if I didn’t have the support from my parents that I do have I would be not be able to function well.
ReplyDeleteI think that coming from a lot of shouting and fighting is bad for someone’s psyche. Being in that sort of environment everyday may induce several psychological problems. These problems may carry on into adulthood and that could potentially be dangerous for the person. This could hinder there chances of being a normal person in modern society.
I do think that how you were raised affects the way that you live your life. If you were raised in a loving home, your parents probably strived for you to do the best and be the best that you can be. If you did not come from a loving home, your parents probably didn’t care whether or not you succeeded or not. This would probably make you lose focus and not care much about school. You may think that it is pointless, and you do not have anyone to make proud so why even bother? On the other hand if you come from a bad home, that may be the driving force that pushes you to do the very best that you can in school. It may be something that can help make your terrible parents finally look at you and be proud.
I think that the way that you were raised definitely has either a positive or negative impact on the way that you live your life. Many things can happen that can either make or break you. It is up to you to determine if you will fall at the hands of defeat or rise above it in triumph.
When it comes to the future and what you make of it, I believe that the way your parents raised you and what type of people they are plays an extremely significant role in what type of person you become. Because of the type person your parents taught you to be, that shapes your future and helps you set goals for yourself.
ReplyDeleteI also believe that the determination your parents instill in you at a young age shapes your destiny. Even though at some point in time a child must take the wheel and shape their own future, it is all based upon the guidance of the parents. While raising you, your parents do anything and everything they can to make sure that you have a better childhood and more opportunities than they did. Because parents make such an effort to give their kids what’s best for them, most kids grow up knowing what they want out of life and what they want to make of themselves, all because their parents wanted them to be successful.
The people that you spend the most time with during the early stages of your life are the people that influence you as well as the choices you make as you get older. When it comes time in your life to make big decision you will always look back on what your parents taught you as a child and use their guidance to help you through the struggles of life. Parents always say that one day you will be thankful for their guidance. Throughout your life, your parents are there so that you will not make the same mistakes they did. Your parents are the people who know what is best for you, and are key to helping you shape your future. Life is about taking the wheel and making your own luck, but at the same time it takes love, care, and support from parents/ guardians to do that successfully. When its time for you to take what you learned throughout life, it will be beneficial to you because you were helped through the hardships of life by your parents. So in conclusion, yes, parents/ guardians are vital when it comes to influences on the shape of your future.
I think that your destiny depends on what type of people your parent/guardian are. It matters a lot only because your parents/guardians are the people that influence you the most. They are the people that raise you. Those are the people that your constantly going to be around so you can easily be influenced by them. Your parent/guardian are going to influence in any type of way. You may pick up their attitude, their daily hobby, etc.. so they are going to have that impact that reflects on your destiny.
ReplyDeleteI think that how you were raised controls your future and it can also be more about you taking the wheel. I think that how you were raised controls your future because something may have happened to you by the person that was raising you and you always held a grudge against them that it toke control of you and your life in the future. Something from your child hood may sometimes or always hold you back from going forward in the future. For example: lets say a child was constantly getting beat from their parent/guardian for no apparent reason. They were just getting beat to get beat. And, 20 years later this person who was once that beaten child reflects back on his/her childhood and could only remember the times where they would get beat for no apparent reason. This may take a turn in their life to always remember that point where they were that child and it may hold them back forever and it corrupts their future. This person may always see them selves as that beaten defensive child, who couldn’t fight back and still cant fight back towards moving closer to their future.
I also think that it can also be more about someone taking the wheel on their life and how they want their future to be. Lets say that defensive child fought back one day. And they would’ve put a stop to their constant beatings that’s an example of them taking the wheel. That’s them taking control on their life. Taking the wheel is more than just self-confidence it is also about being the bigger person and not letting anything hold you back from your future. Taking the wheel is saying enough is enough. Taking the wheel may also be taking control of the person that you always knew you were but was never able to show who you were. Taking the wheel is about being in control of who you are, and how you may want people to look at you. Taking the wheel may build someone. But can also make them fall,
I believe my destiny is greatly affected by those around me especially my elders and parents because they are the people closest to me and the ones who set an example for me. From childhood up until adulthood my family is the people I see most often and I am able to learn from their actions. Some people aspire to be the like those who are around them the most like a young boy who wants to be like his father when he gets older or a girl that wants to have the same profession as her mother as an adult. The effect of parent’s actions lasts a lifetime because as a child you learn what is right and what is wrong and although a child may know that something their parent did was wrong they may still try to do it also because their parent may have gotten away with it. The way a child is raised always affects their future because this is the time where their parents set their morals for them which they carry with them throughout their whole lives. Depending on the methods a parent chooses to raise their child they may become successful or unsuccessful. While some children may be able to break out of bad habits they picked up from those around them but most people usually stick to why they know whether it’s good or bad. Sometimes a child or young adult may know what they are doing is wrong but they continue because that may be the way they were taught by their parents to do things. Parents always have the greatest effect on their children good or bad because children can never forget the ways of the people who gave them life. The lives people lead are always directly or indirectly affected by those around them because people build off others progress and success or failure. Parents are always prominent figures in their children lives kids may want to be exactly like or the complete opposite of their parents based on how their lives turned out.
ReplyDeleteI believe your destiny depends on the type of people your parents are. I believe Parents are suppose to teach and guide the child into what is right and what is wrong. I believe that every parent want their child to do the right instead of the wrong. If the parent want the child to do good in school, and they actually push them; then the child will most likely set high standards and goals in school and in life. Another reason may be because, the child may look up to the adult, and would want to do what they do. Another reason would be the way the parent carry themselves around the child. If the parent was to always fight, act rude in public, or to any one then the child can pick up, on what they see. What I am most likely saying is the child is going to grow up the same exact way they watched their parent grow up; meaning the same attitude, same lifestyle as the parent. If the child is doing something completely wrong, they would sometimes get it from the parents. A good example would be, if the child is getting disrespectful with an adult, the adult would look at that child and will think that they get the rudeness from the parents. If a parent was to have good conduct around their child, then the children would do the same thing. I think that if my mother or father was always arguing, cursing, or disrespecting each other then I would come to school and instantly snap at a person. But because they try and watch what they said around me, I try to come to school in a respectable manner; and because my parents set high standards for me I can carry them on. I also believe if I didn’t have parents to set my standards from young then , I know for a fact that I would have made numerous mistakes. My future is now in my hands and I am sure it is bound to be a good exciting one, all because of my parents being a good role model.
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ReplyDeleteThis is a very interesting question. I agree that your destiny depends on what type of people your parents are. However, this is also not true because some children do have bad role models and they are the first’s one to go to college and make it successful in life. On the other hand there are many good parents out there and you find that their kids are doing bad things that they shouldn’t be doing. Most of the time from what I know most kids follow in their parents foot steps depending how they are raised.
Every child needs a role model. If they get a parent that teaches them the right things then most likely do the right things in life. When you have a parent that don’t really cares for a child and also don’t teach them wrong from right, they become more bad. A child destiny starts at a very young age, it takes a caring and loving parent to make sure that the child life start well.
Another thing is a parent enforcing an education for their child. That’s another way to tell if a child is going to have a flourishing life. Parents who make sure that their child have a excellent education are making their future brighter for them and that’s a wonderful role model. When parents don’t care about their child’s education, they have a less chance of becoming successful. That has a big tole on the parent and child’s life.
At the bottom line it mostly counts on the child. Like the saying you can bring a horse to a lake, but you can’t force it to drink water. At the end it depends on what the child is going to do, even if they have good or bad parents. If they bad parents they are many resources for them to improve their lives. They can also speak to people about their problems they are having at home. However, you can have a child who parents are very caring and supportive of him/her and the child is doing things that they shouldn’t do. They take their parents for granted and don’t do the things their suppose to do.
I think your destiny very much depends on a person s parents. Your parents are supposed to teach you about life. Your parents are supposed to teach what is right and what is wrong. There also supposed to teach kids responsibility. This is an important job of the parent or guardians job. So a person’s whole future depends on their parent or guardian. So think how you raised controls how your future turns out. If you were raised to have every thing come to you without working for it that person will probably depend on the person that took care of them. Most of the times people that were raised to be responsible they turn out to have very successful lives. But most of the people that were raised wrong they end up having unhappy lives. But sometimes there are the few that are able to take the wheel into there hands. Some kids even thought they weren’t around the best parental environment they still end up leading successful lives. Those take it into there own hands to do what they have to do be successful. But very few are able to do this. Most the times it depends on how a person is raised. If a parent is strict this is teaching discipline, which is raising the child right. Mostly all successful people know discipline. And they also know responsibility and respect. If a person is raised with respect then they will get better treatment. And if a person is raised to be responsible than they will be better prepared for life. I have seen many kids not raised with respect and its sad to say that there life will be hard if they continue down that path. And it is because they weren’t raised right and that will prove that sometimes it does depends on how the person was raised. So to conclude I think a person destiny depend on what type of people your parents are. If your parents are kind than you will probably be kind because you were around that person all your life. And I think most of the times your future is controlled on how you were raised. But there are the few that rise above that obstacle and take the wheel. This is my opinion the matter.
ReplyDeleteI believe that the type of parents you have or the way your parents act have both a negative and positive affect on what you end up like i the future. like to say if your parents were screwed up and treated you badly or have a reputation for not graduating of having kids early, the child is more likely to pick up the habits and follow in the parents footsteps. As opposed to if your parents were very good to you and expected the best from you then you are more likely to suceed. Some people take the bad and turn it into good by gaining motivation from the wrong done upon them. Others could take a good striving and hardworking family that pushes you to do everything and end up rebelling because parents are pushing things on them that they dont want. so to me the situtation can go either way.
ReplyDeletefirst off my destiny is to become a nurse or pediatrician because i love working with children and a nurse because i wanna be able to help people who are sick and find cures for things that don't have cures yet. i don't think that the way i am being raised will affect me in the future because i was raised to know right from wrong so i know when to stay on the right track in becoming successful. i have a lot of support at home so its not like i live some where were my parents don't care about me or my beings. i am the type of child that when i dream for something i dream big so i know what i want in life is something I'm going to have to put alot of work into. i have lots of influences such as my mother because she is successful and it wasn't always that easy for her growing up so what she does is give me the life that she never had. i also don't think the way I'm being raised will affect me in the future because its up to me if i wanna do right or if i wanna make it in life nobody else's. so in my opinion it doesn't matter how you are raised it matters what you wanna become and how hard your going to work in order to achieve your goal.
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